Respect Creativity
It’s easy to equate understanding with creativity. We read Hemingway or stare at a Rothko and think “I could do that.” The better-executed a piece of art is, the more natural it seems. The best make it look easy.
As a trained musician, I can listen to a pop song and more or less understand it. I can grasp its structure, hear how the instruments work together, and write out the chords pretty accurately.